Top Questions to Ask a Wedding DJ Before Hiring (Answered)

Planning a wedding in NYC, Brooklyn, the Hudson Valley, or New Jersey? Here's what to ask your DJ before locking them in.

Choosing the right DJ is one of the most important decisions you’ll make when planning your wedding. Music sets the tone for your entire celebration—and your DJ is more than just someone who plays songs. They're your vibe curator, timeline guardian, and crowd-reading expert.

At Aria Melody, we’ve been trusted with hundreds of weddings across NYC, Brooklyn, the Hudson Valley, and New Jersey—and we’ve answered just about every question couples can think of. So we put together this guide not just as a checklist, but as real answers to the most common questions couples ask us before booking.

Whether you're in the early planning stages or narrowing down your vendor list, this list will help you feel confident, prepared, and excited about finding the perfect DJ for your big day.

Music & Style

1.How would you describe your DJ style and music approach?

We deliver curated, high-energy sets without any of the cheesy wedding clichés. Every wedding we DJ in NYC or New Jersey is customized—no pre-made playlists, just seamless live mixing that reflects your taste and keeps your guests dancing all night.

2. Can we give you a must-play and do-not-play list?

Absolutely. We love collaborating with couples to build a personalized soundtrack. Just give us a vibe to run with and we’ll make it feel like you.

3. How do you handle song requests from guests during the reception?

We welcome guest requests and strive to accommodate them whenever possible, ensuring they align with your preferred music style and the overall vibe of the event. Your satisfaction is our priority, so we always adhere to any "do not play" lists you've provided.

4. What genres of music do you specialize in for weddings?​

We pride ourselves on our versatility, covering a wide range of genres from classic hits to contemporary tracks. Our goal is to curate a playlist that reflects your personal taste and keeps your guests dancing all night.

5. Do you offer MC services too?

Absolutely—and always with polish. Our MC style is professional and elegant, never intrusive or over-the-top. We make clear, intentional announcements when needed, and let the music do the talking the rest of the time.

6. What do you do if no one’s dancing?

We read the room and adjust in real time. Our DJs know how to build energy without forcing it, and with 15+ years of experience across NYC, Brooklyn, and NJ venues, we know what works.

Planning & Experience

7. Are you available on our wedding date?

Let’s find out! We book a limited number of weddings per year to keep things personal and white-glove. Reach out early to check your date. Click here to contact us.

8. How many weddings have you done?

Over 300 and counting. From rooftop weddings in Brooklyn to ballroom receptions in New Jersey, we’ve seen it all—and planned for everything.

9. Have you worked at our wedding venue in NYC or NJ before?​

Chances are, yes. But even if we haven’t, we’ll contact your venue directly to coordinate logistics. We've had the pleasure of performing at numerous venues across New York City, Brooklyn, and New Jersey. We show up early, soundcheck thoroughly, and plan ahead.

10. Do you book multiple events per day?

Never. Your wedding gets our full focus from start to finish. No juggling. No rushing. Just complete attention on your big day.

Logistics & Setup

11. Do you provide your own sound equipment?

Yes—all top-of-the-line equipment is included. We bring everything: sound systems, wireless mics, backup gear, and more.

12. How early do you arrive to set up?

We’re usually on-site 2–3 hours early to ensure everything is ready before the first guest walks in.

13. What do you wear to weddings?

We dress to match the formality of your event—typically a fitted suit.

14. What happens if there’s an emergency?

We have a backup plan for everything—gear, DJs, and logistics. After 15+ years, we’ve seen it all and are ready for anything.

Pricing & Booking

15. How much do you charge, and what’s included?

Our all-inclusive DJ packages for NYC, Brooklyn, and New Jersey weddings start around $2,200–$3,500 and include everything you need: planning, sound, live mixing, coordination, and more. No hidden fees—ever.

16. Do you offer a breakdown of what’s included?

Yes. Head over to our wedding page here.

17. What’s your booking process?

We keep it simple: a signed agreement + retainer to lock in your date. From there, we’ll guide you through planning and timeline prep.

18. Do you have liability insurance?

Yes—and we’ll provide your venue with proof if needed. Most high-end venues in NYC and New Jersey require this.

Still Searching for the Right Wedding DJ?

You’ve got the questions—now let’s talk about your answers.

At Aria Melody, we specialize in fun, seamless, music-driven celebrations with zero stress and zero cheese. If you're planning a wedding in NYC, Brooklyn, the Hudson Valley, or New Jersey, we'd love to hear your vision and help bring it to life.